By Dimitris Alexandrakis, destination wedding photographer, Alexandrakis Photography

To prepare for your wedding photos, build a photography timeline around golden hour, keep your getting-ready room tidy and close to natural light, gather your details in one box, and decide in advance whether you want a first look.

Do those four things and most of the pressure lifts. I am Dimitris Alexandrakis, and after 250 or more weddings across Greece I have learned that preparation is what makes a day feel calm and unhurried.

This guide walks you through every step, from the week before to the morning of. For the wider picture, see my complete guide to wedding photography in Greece.

The short answer: how to prepare in one paragraph

Great wedding photos are made before the camera comes out. They start with a timeline that puts your portraits in the best light, a calm space to get ready in, and a plan for the small details.

Fix your ceremony time and sunset first, then build the day backward from there. When the schedule has room in it, you look relaxed, because you actually are.

Everything below expands on that idea, with practical steps you can share with your planner and your partner.

Start with a photography timeline (and build in golden hour)

The single most useful thing you can do is plan a wedding photography timeline that lands your couple portraits in golden hour, the warm final hour before sunset.

In a Greek summer the sun sets close to 8:30pm, so portraits usually fall between 7:30 and 8:30pm. In spring and autumn that window shifts earlier as sunset moves.

Set your sunset time for the date first, then work backward through portraits, ceremony, family photos, and getting ready. That one habit prevents most timeline problems before they begin.

If you want to understand the light itself, my guide to golden-hour photography in Greece explains why this hour flatters every skin tone and setting.

Leave a few minutes of slack at each stage. A short buffer absorbs the small delays that happen at every wedding, so nothing turns into a rush.

Getting-ready prep: room, light and details

Your preparation photos set the mood for the whole gallery, and they depend heavily on the room you choose. Pick a space with a large window and plenty of natural light.

Ask your suite to be tidy before I arrive. Hide the suitcases, water bottles, and stray hangers, because a clean background lets the real moments stand out.

Get ready near the window, not in a dim corner. Soft daylight on your face is far kinder than a ceiling bulb, and it keeps the images bright and timeless.

For inspiration on framing this part of the day, see my getting-ready photo ideas for brides. It shows how a calm, well-lit room translates into elegant images.

The details shot list: rings, invitations, shoes, flowers

Details tell the story of your taste, so gather them in one box before the morning begins. Rings, invitations, shoes, perfume, jewellery, and a bloom or two are the classics.

Having them ready in a single place saves me hunting for a lost cufflink at the exact moment your hair is finished. It keeps the morning smooth and on schedule.

Bring three of everything small, such as invitation suites, so I can build layered flat-lays. A little heirloom, a family piece, or a handwritten vow adds real meaning.

My wedding detail shots checklist lists every item worth setting aside, so nothing sentimental gets missed on the day.

How to feel relaxed and look natural in front of the camera

Most couples worry they will look stiff, and the good news is you barely have to pose. My approach is unobtrusive and documentary, so most images are simply real moments as they happen.

For the handful of portraits, I give gentle, easy prompts rather than rigid poses. We walk, we talk, you hold each other, and the camera quietly disappears.

If posing still makes you nervous, read my tips on how to look natural in wedding photos. Small habits, like keeping your weight moving, make a big difference.

It also helps to know what to wear so you feel like yourself. My guide to what to wear for wedding photos in Greece covers fabrics and colours that photograph beautifully in Mediterranean light.

Above all, trust your photographer. When you stop performing for the lens and start being present with each other, the images become honest, and honest is what you will treasure.

Preparing for a destination or island wedding (heat, wind and light)

A destination wedding in Greece adds a few variables worth planning for, and heat is the first. Schedule portraits for golden hour rather than the harsh midday sun, and keep water close.

Wind is the second, especially on the Santorini caldera and the beaches of Mykonos. Choose fabrics and a hairstyle that move well, and bring a few discreet pins for security.

Light is the third, and it is your ally. Whitewashed walls, blue domes, and the Aegean act like giant reflectors, so plan portrait stops where that light does the work.

If you are travelling from abroad, keep your rings, licence, and key details in your carry-on, never in checked luggage. Small logistics like this protect the whole day.

I know how the light and wind behave at venues such as Cavo Ventus in Santorini and Ktima 48 on the Athens Riviera, so I plan each stop around real conditions on the ground.

The first look: should you do one?

A first look is a private moment where you and your partner see each other before the ceremony. It is entirely optional, and both choices photograph beautifully.

Doing one calms nerves and creates unhurried portrait time, which often frees you to enjoy more of the reception with your guests later. It suits tighter timelines especially well.

Waiting for the aisle keeps the tradition and the surprise intact, and many couples would not trade that first glance for anything. Neither option is wrong.

If you are weighing it up, my first look photo ideas show how the moment can look, so you can picture it before you decide.

A simple week-before and morning-of checklist

In the final week, confirm the timeline with your planner, charge nothing you can forget, and set aside your details box. Break in your shoes and steam your dress so it hangs clean.

Get a good night of sleep and drink plenty of water. Rest and hydration show on camera more than any product, keeping your eyes bright and your skin fresh.

On the morning, get ready near the window, keep the room tidy, and hand me the details early. Then hand over the schedule and let yourself be in the day.

If you are still choosing your photographer, my list of questions to ask your wedding photographer will help you confirm they plan the day as carefully as this.

Some couples also add a relaxed session before the day. If that appeals, my guide to whether you need an engagement shoot before your wedding weighs up the benefits.

Skin, hair and rest in the final week

Your skin and energy show on camera more than any filter, so treat the final week as gentle preparation. Hydrate well, sleep properly, and avoid anything that might irritate your skin.

If your skin is dry, wash your hair the day before. If it runs oily, wash it on the morning for a fresh look. Small timing choices like this keep you looking your best.

A hydrating face mask the night before adds a natural glow, and a lip balm before bed helps colour sit evenly. Grooms usually look sharpest with a clean, fresh shave on the morning.

Go easy on alcohol and salty food the night before to reduce puffiness. None of this is about perfection, only about feeling comfortable and rested in your own skin.

Prepare a family and group photo shot list

Family photos are the part of the day most likely to run late, and a short shot list prevents that. Write down the exact groupings you want, in the order you want them.

Keep the list realistic, usually eight to twelve groups, and share it with me and your planner in advance. Long lists eat into golden hour and tire everyone out.

Nominate one confident family member from each side to gather people by name. A friendly voice who knows the relatives moves groups along far faster than a photographer can.

Tell close family the plan the night before, so they stay nearby right after the ceremony. Five organised minutes here saves twenty minutes of searching later.

Prepare your rings and heirlooms for detail photos

Your rings are often the first detail I photograph, so give them a quick clean before the day. A polished band catches the Greek light beautifully in a close-up.

Set aside any heirlooms early, such as a grandmother’s brooch, a borrowed veil, or handwritten vows. These carry the most meaning and deserve their own frame.

Keep everything together with the invitation suite, ribbons, and loose flowers, so the flat-lay comes together quickly. A tidy details box is worth ten minutes of calm on the morning.

If a piece is fragile or valuable, tell me, and I will handle and return it carefully. Nothing sentimental should ever feel at risk during photos.

Brief your bridal party and key people

Your bridal party sets the tone of your preparation photos, so let them know the schedule. Ask them to be ready before you, so the room stays calm while you finish.

Choose where you will hang your dress or suit, ideally near the window and away from clutter. This tiny detail makes your first getting-ready images look effortless.

Let your key people know when the first look or ceremony starts, and when photos happen. When everyone shares the same timeline, the day flows without anyone chasing.

If children are involved, plan their photos early, while they are fresh. Tired little ones rarely cooperate later, and early coverage keeps those moments sweet.

Coordinate with your planner and vendors

Your planner, hair and makeup team, and venue all shape the photography timeline, so align everyone early. The most common cause of rushed photos is hair and makeup finishing late.

Ask your stylist for a firm finish time, then add a buffer. Being ready 30 minutes before you think you need to be is the easiest way to protect your portrait time.

Confirm with the venue where and when golden hour falls, and whether any spaces need booking for photos. A quick check avoids surprises on the day.

If you are still assembling your team from abroad, my complete wedding vendor guide for Greece explains who to hire and in what order.

What to pack for a destination wedding photo day

For a destination wedding in Greece, a small preparation kit protects your look and your peace of mind. Pack it yourself and keep it with a trusted person on the day.

Include blotting papers, a compact touch-up kit, safety pins, comfortable shoes for walking between photo spots, and water. Heat and movement are constant on Greek island weddings.

Keep rings, the licence, and any heirlooms in your hand luggage if you are flying, never in checked bags. Losing them to a delayed suitcase is a risk not worth taking.

Finally, pack a light layer for evening. Coastal breezes cool quickly after sunset, and staying comfortable keeps you glowing through the reception.

Have a simple weather backup plan

Greek summers are reliably sunny, but a backup plan still brings peace of mind. Ask your venue about a covered space that photographs well, just in case.

Rain is rare in peak season yet dramatic when it comes, and it can make striking images. A few clear umbrellas turn a shower into a memorable, moody portrait.

Wind is the more common factor, so plan a sheltered portrait option alongside your open-air one. Knowing you have both means you never have to worry about the forecast.

Trust your photographer to adapt. After many seasons in Greece, I always carry a plan for heat, wind, and the occasional cloud, so the day stays relaxed whatever the sky does.

Why preparation makes the day feel calm

Preparation is not about controlling every second. It is about removing the small frictions that create stress, so you are free to enjoy the day you planned for so long.

When the timeline has room, the room has light, and the details are ready, there is nothing left to chase. You get to be fully present, and presence is what the camera loves.

Couples often tell me afterwards that the day felt calmer than they expected. Almost always, that calm traces back to the planning we did together in the weeks before.

That is the real goal of this guide. Not perfect logistics for their own sake, but a wedding day that feels unhurried, joyful, and completely yours.

Frequently asked questions

How do I prepare for my wedding photos?

Build a photography timeline around golden hour, keep your getting-ready room tidy and near a window, gather your details in one box for the photographer, and decide whether you want a first look. Above all, give photography enough time so nothing feels rushed.

How far in advance should we plan the photography timeline?

Ideally four to six weeks before the wedding, once the ceremony time and venue logistics are fixed. I help every couple map the day so portraits fall in the best light and family photos run efficiently.

What is a first look and should we do one?

A first look is a private moment where you see each other before the ceremony. It is optional, but it creates calm, unhurried portrait time and often lets you spend more of the reception with your guests.

How do we not look stiff in photos?

You barely have to pose. My style is unobtrusive and documentary, so most images are real moments. For the few portraits, I give gentle prompts and keep things relaxed, which is why couples say the camera disappears.

How do we prepare for a hot, windy island wedding?

Schedule portraits for golden hour rather than midday heat, stay hydrated, and choose fabrics and hairstyles that move well in the Aegean breeze. I know how the light and wind behave at venues across Santorini, Mykonos, and the Athens Riviera.

Plan your day together: book a consultation

I build a custom timeline and preparation plan with every couple, tuned to your venue, your sunset, and your details. It is one of the most useful things we do before the day.

Reach me at +30 693 7303 591 or info@alexandrakisphotography.gr, or send your date through the contact page to start planning a calm, well-prepared wedding day.

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